Girls Night Out Bootcamp
Get out on the town for a "Girls' Night Out" learning about dating and attraction with your friends.
To gain Access to this Course you must be a Paid Member of One of Our Substacks on a monthly basis (or the access will not be granted or continued).
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Once you enroll in one or more of them as a Paid Member, we automatically add you to the Library and also enroll you for free in the enormous online wiki compendium on human courtship, Romantipedia.com.
You can quit at any time by unenrolling in the substack, at which your course membership and Romantipedia.com will also be cancelled.
What you'll get:
- How to master the steps of early courtship
- How to identify high-value men in their psychology and goodness
- How to appeal and attract them
- How to avoid narcissistic individuals with quick tests.
This is not a reasonable substitute for medical care or psychotherapy. If you need that seek local professional help.

The Girls' Night Out Dating Bootcamp for Women
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How to Start Out in Dating
2 lessons- Getting Started in Dating
- What You Will Learn
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Understanding Evolutionary Psychology
4 lessons- Evolutionary Psychology and Attraction
- How and Why Women Can Use Evolutionary Psychology
- Fun With Evolutionary Psychology and Mate Selection
- General Principles of Masculine and Feminine Instincts
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All Relationships Are Voluntary
3 lessons- The Spectrum of Relationships
- Analyzing the Dating Market
- Volunteerism and Boundaries
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Men and Women Are Equal But Different
4 lessons- The Reptilian Brain
- "Being right," but Being Ineffective at Finding Love
- Instincts and Reflexes
- Your Femininity Reinforcing His Masculinity
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Early Dating is Not Serious
5 lessons- It's Ok to be Curious
- Unconscious Flirting Through Body Language
- Observing Ego and Social Awareness
- It's Just Fun
- Don't Let Your Girlfriends Spoil It for You
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Sexual Attraction
8 lessons- The Unconscious Sexual Instincts of Men
- Feminine Reproductive Strategy
- Online is not In-Person
- Sexual Chemistry is NOT the Same as the Sex Act
- When to Sleep With Him
- Old Vs. Young as Opposed to Old Vs. New
- Ticking Clocks and Mental Vacations
- Choose Wisely in the First Five Minutes
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The Importance of Your Environment and Friendships
10 lessons- Optimize Your People, Your Places and Your Activities
- Working Your Friendship Circles
- Your Attitude About the Past, Present and Future
- The Usefulness of the Four Learning Areas
- The Accuracy and Precision of the Steps of Attraction
- The Necessity of Being a Woman of Action
- Translating Man Language
- Would You Rather Be Right, or Rather Be Happy?
- Projection and Displacement as Narcissistic Manipulations
- The Importance of Testing Men with Kindness
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The Four Learning Areas
8 lessons- The Four Learning Areas of Attraction
- Your Inner Psychology
- Your Inner Strategy
- Outer Body Language
- Your Outer Tactics
- Fear of Men
- Outer Tactics in What to Say and Do
- The Magic Conversation
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Organizing Your Workshop
9 lessons- Getting Started
- Helping Your Friends Help You
- Forming a Women's Personal Growth Team Using Social Personality Styles
- Individual and Team Strengths and Roles
- Reservations and Masculine Protest
- The Conditions of Western Culture
- The State of Marriage
- Planning Your Schedules and Resources
- The Code of Conduct With Other Women
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Delivering Your Workshop
9 lessons- Contact Info and Individual Backgrounds
- Safe Harbors and Rendezvous Points
- Sisterhood and Sidekicks
- Groups and Subgroups
- Dealing With Groups of Men
- Dealing With Mixed Groups
- Getting "Face Time" with a Man
- Separating From Your Group
- How to End the Workshop
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The Steps of Attraction
10 lessons- The Steps of Attraction
- Step 1: Mysteriousness in Men
- What Men Do to Be Mysterious
- Limerance and the Power of Projection
- Your Response to His Mysteriousness
- His Response to Your Approval
- Screening for a Gentleman
- When (and How) to Touch
- The Tables Have Turned on Him and He Stays Calm
- Testing a Man
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Step One: Be "Beautiful"
5 lessons- Getting Noticed
- Beauty in Your Inner Psychology
- Beauty of Your Inner Strategy
- The Beauty of Your Body Language
- The Beauty Expressed in Social Tactics
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Step One: He is Mysterious
5 lessons- You Find Him Interesting
- The Effect of Mystery on Your Inner Psychology
- The Mysterious Response to Your Body Language
- The Mysteriousness of Your Outer Body Language
- The Mysteriousness of Social Tactics
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Step Two: "Believing in Him" and Admiring Him
5 lessons- Believing in Him, Admiration and "Cheerleading"
- Admiring Him With Your Inner Psychology
- Admiring a Man as Your Inner Strategy
- Admiring Him in Your Body Language
- Admiring a Man in Your Outer Tactics
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Step Two: He Acts Like a Gentleman
5 lessons- He Does Act Like a Gentleman
- Your Inner Psychology Reacts to His Gentlemanliness
- Your Inner Strategy and His Fatherliness
- Your Outer Body Lanuage in Response to His Fatherliness
- Your Outer Tactics in Response to His Fatherliness
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Step Three: Challenge Him
4 lessons- Challenging a Man's Masculinity and Character Maturity
- Your Inner Psychology of Partnership With the Man
- Your Outer Body Language in Testing the Man
- Testing Him With Your Outer Body Language Tactics
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Step Three and Endings: His Response to Your Tests
4 lessons- His Reponse to Your Tests, and Graceful Exits
- He Passes Your Tests in Summary, or He Does Not
- Making Your Decision With the Four Learning Areas
- Your Next Steps: Maintaining and Improving Your Skills